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You should leave Instagram and concentrate on your music – Calvin Da Entertainer advises Diamond Oscar

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Diamond Oscar

By Seguya Musa

UBC TV presenter Calvin Da Entertainer seems worried about singer Diamond Oscar’s drowning music career and has advised him to concentrate more on it instead of wasting time on Instagram.

Diamond Oscar aka Bling Bling Master has taken over 5 years without releasing a major hit and the only thing he has done in those years is to cut off his dreads and update his Instagram, a thing which forced Calvin to come out to give him a piece of advice.

While commenting on one Oscar’s posts on Instagram, Calvin said: “How I wish you could put in the same effort like you do to Instagram in your music. Bling Bing master Omuziki guliwa?”

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Chameleone set for music tour in USA

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Dr. Jose Chameleone

Chameleone is set to kickoff a music tour in USA later this month, we have learnt.

The “Wale Wale” singer who recently revealed he will not be holding his annual concert in Uganda seems to have now shifted his focus to taking his music to the rest of the world.

Just after concluding a concert in Rwanda, he announced he will be holding a music tour in America that will see him perform in several American cities including Dallas and San Diego among others.

He posted on social media:  “Next stop>>>>> Dallas, Minnesota, San Diego, Missouri and Arizona | USA  25th may we begin!!!!”

His US music tour is powered by Kenda International Events.

Staff Writer

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Chameleone finally releases “Agatako” video. Watch it here!

Burna Boy accused of stealing music after failing to pay producer

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Popular musician Burna boy, has come under fire once again. Burna boy had been dragged by a Tv show presenter who called him ‘rude’ after promising an interview and not showing up. This time he is being dragged by the producer of his hit song ‘Soke’. Burna boy was accused of releasing another song he made with the producer @Orbeat_Official, without first informing him.

Orbeat

Source: Naij.com

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ThrowBack: See how A Pass looked like years ago without hair.

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By Seguya Musa

Singer Alex Bagonza aka A Pass has indeed come from far, from a bold head to dreads now. We landed on an old photo of the Memories hit maker and it is hard to tell it was him since we are used to seeing him with a lot of hair on his head and he has added on some weight. See Photo below.

A Pass throwback

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Why Radio and Weasel Concert Might Flop.

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Radio and Weasel

Despite the huge corporate backing, the “Omwana Wa Bandi” show might flop like Dr Stella Nyanzi’s nudes.

With the continued charged political environment, Radio and Weasel, both participants of the Tubonga Nawe project may be the collateral victims. The artistes have allegedly tasted the bitter fruits of the boycott.

According to some fans, aggrieved opposition fans might sublime their emotions to campaigning for a boycott of Radio and Weasel.”The threat is real. You can’t ignore the majority of youths, mainly the show goers, if they decide to boycott.”

Currently, some fans have started an online campaign using Facebook to encourage the boycott of Radio and Weasel. We are yet to witness whether this threat holds water.

A huge turn out for Radio and Weasel could possibly change the paradigm while a flop will affect the confidence of corporate support for artists who were part of NRM campaign trail.

Watch this space.

Staff Writer

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7 Signs your partner is wrong for you

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Many couples break up because they refuse to see the obvious signs that they are wrong for each other at the beginning of their relationship.

Couples ought to bring out the best in each other, face difficulties and grow together.

You may be with the wrong person, if you don’t see all these happening to both of you in the long run.

Inspired by Huffington Post, here are 7 signs your partner is wrong for you:

1. Your partner isn’t trustworthy

2. Your partner doesn’t admit to mistakes made in the past

3. Your partner doesn’t share your sense of humor

4. Your partner doesn’t see your full potential

5. Your partner never fights fair

6. Your partner never takes responsibility for his or her current action

7. Your partner isn’t really your best friend

Source: Pulse.ng

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4 Reasons a man will refuse to give you head

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We are long past the time where men consider the idea of performing oral sex on a woman strange and needless.

Considering the fact that women are more likely to achieve orgasm through oral sex as opposed to penetrative sex, a man who does not go down will probably have a partner who has never achieve orgasm with his help.

Knowing this, there are still a few things that will prevent men from giving their partners ‘head’. On a scale of manageable to major dealbreaker (Hell No!), here is a countdown of the top reasons why men would rather not go down.

4. Not Attractive

The least likely reason, although a reason nonetheless, that men would not perform oral sex is attractiveness. Men are visual creatures and if he does not feel sexually attracted to you, it will affect how hard he will try to please you. If you expect oral sex from your man and he keeps saying ‘no’ it might be because he does not find you attractive enough. Oral sex is a selfless act and it takes a man who is willing to put your pleasure first to give you that special loving.

3. Intimacy level

Another major reason men do not perform oral sex is when they do not feel an adequate level of intimacy and connection with their partner. Some men are unlikely to go down on a woman they just met or on a woman they consider a stranger.

2. Will not be reciprocated

The second most popular reason men give for not wanting to perform oral sex is if it is not reciprocated. He is less likely to eat you out if you are not willing to give him a blow job. Most men are big fans of blow jobs, and he will not consider performing oral sex of you if he has not gotten one or the chance to receive is very unlikely.

1. Bad hygiene

The number one reason he will not go down on you is hygiene.  If your vagina looks, smells or taste funny, he will absolutely not go near it with his mouth. In fact, about 95 percent of men we questioned have given ‘odour’ as their biggest oral sex dealbreaker.

Source: Pulse.ng

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3 Reasons why sex and water should not mix

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Sure, there are great things to be said for having sex in the shower. It is often spontaneous, and you can clean up immediately after. But, shower sex also comes with its fair share of risks. Risks you would not have if you are having sex on dry land.

Here are three main ones below.

1. Water is not a lubricant

Water isn’t harmful during sex, but it is not lube and will often wash away one’s natural mucus and lubrication. As a result, some people will be tempted to use whatever is handy to replace their normal lubricant (soap, shampoo),bur those can both cause a lot of irritation to the vulva and vagina, as well as cause dryness of the penile skin. The vagina has been known to even develop cuts and tears from the non-lubricated penetration, which could mimic symptoms of a urinary tract infection, cause vaginitis, and the change in pH to the vaginal skin can attract all of those little microbes near the rectum to travel up the woman’s urethra, causing a greater risk for real UTI or kidney infection.

2. Condoms are less effective

Obviously wearing one is better than having zero protection, but you shouldn’t rely on this as your only form of contraception in the shower, and without one, you have no prevention against the spread of disease. According to the Lifestyles condoms website, it’s safe to use a condom in water as long as the condom remains on the penis.Unfortunately, condoms have a greater likelihood of slipping when wet, and a condom can’t be as effective as it needs to be if it’s not even on. Lifestyles’ site recommends to put the condom on before you get in the shower and to note that if the water contains chemicals such as chlorine or additives such as bath oil or bubble bath, it may harm a latex condom.

3. You can get seriously hurt

Showers are slippery and this increases the likelihood of falling and getting hurt. Between the weirdo positions you’re pretty much forced to get into when you’re having shower sex, coupled with everything being slippery in the shower, your chances of his penis bending in in a weird angle are also easily greater than in just about any other location.

Source: Pulse.ng

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Did you know? Saying ‘I Love You’ during sex makes your partner feel satisfied

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Saying ‘I love you’ during sex is the thing that is most likely to make you and your partner feel satisfied.

A study has found that talking about love whilst in bed beats foreplay and wearing sexy lingerie to ensure you have a good time.

Some 75 per cent of satisfied men said ‘I love you’ whilst they had sex and 74 per cent of satisfied women did the same.

The study, one of the largest of its kind to date, involved an online survey which got tens of thousands of responses.

Scientists from Chapman University in the US analyzed the answers of 39,000 married or cohabitating heterosexual men and women who had been with their partner for at least three years.

The average age was 40 years old for women and 46 years old for men.

The results showed that the more a couple communicates during sex, the more satisfied they are going to be.

Things which improved love making included; praising your partner for something they did in bed and asking your partner for something you want.

Talking on the phone or by email during the day about sex also ensured that they had a good time in bed.

The most important factor in setting the mood among men and women was saying ‘I love you’, which was done by three quarters of satisfied men and women.

Source: Daily Mail

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MTN unpacks their sustainability efforts.

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MTN LOGOMTN Group continues to make strides in achieving its sustainability vision of protecting and creating economic value for the company and its stakeholders, through responsible environmental and social core business practices.

The Group has released its annual Sustainability Report for 2015, which details how MTN is delivering on the three sustainability focus areas of creating sustainable economic value, reducing its environmental impact and delivering societal value in a sustainable and ethical manner.

“Like all businesses, we face challenges from time to time. However, we are not deterred in our sustainability journey. As a major ICT role-player in emerging markets, we are acutely aware that our resources can make a meaningful difference to the lives of our customers and communities,” states MTN Executive Chairman, Phuthuma Nhleko, in the report.

As part of our efforts to create sustainable economic value through digital inclusion, MTN rolled out a number of key initiatives in the past year.

In Benin, for example, where more than 70% of the population live off-grid and do not have access to electricity, MTN partnered with Netherlands Development Organisation (SNV), the government, local solar power companies and a local micro-finance institution to ensure its rural network could be used to distribute solar power products. As a result, approximately 10 000 solar lamps were sold between March 2015 and August 2015; between 30 and 50 mobile phones are charged on average per day per solar-powered service and 100 MTN airtime agents now offer solar power charging services to increase their offering and revenues.

In addition, services such as MTN Mobile Money, continue to transform millions of lives by providing access to financial services for people that are largely excluded from traditional financial services. There are over 9,79 million active users who are able to perform local and international money transfers, make utility payments, settle taxes, save money in their interest-bearing mobile wallets, buy micro-insurance and pay school fees. In Uganda, for instance, Mobile Money facilitated the collection of R118 million in payments for water fees in 2015.

MTN also rolled out its Internet of Things (IoT) platform in 2015, which is allowing digital solutions to contribute to the efficient use of resources in the energy, water and agricultural sectors through solutions such as smart metering. Smart meters monitor the consumption of resources such as water or electricity, via remote application infrastructure, and provides insight into how, when and where such resources are used. Other digital inclusion initiatives span across driving the use of smartphones by offering affordable handsets, as well as m-health, m-education and m-insurance services, among others.

In the area of eco-responsibility, MTN’s investments in efficient and green power sources, energy, carbon accounting programmes, e-waste management and office greening projects, are ensuring the company continually works towards achieving more, with fewer resources, and a reduced environmental impact.

To this end, key highlights for 2015 include:

· 329 green sites across the MTN network

· 7 947tCO2e Green House Gas emissions avoided

· Between 2011 and 2014, energy efficiency solutions have been implemented at 9 989 network sites, as well as at data centres, switches, hubs and office buildings. In 2015, an additional 450 sites were improved.

· 534,5 tonnes of e-waste handed over for extracting valuable elements and components and safe disposal in 2015.

“In 2016, we hope to continue to enabling digital dividends for our stakeholders by harnessing the spirit of innovation and collaboratively developing solutions to opportunities and real-life challenges in our markets,” concluded Nhleko.

A copy of the MTN Group Sustainability Report for 2015 is available via www.mtn.com.The Group’s 2015 CDP, UN GRI 4 and UN Global Compact Reports are also available here.

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PHOTOS: Uganda’s Bikini Queen Hildah Lindah Marks Birthday with New Photo-shoot

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By Lee Osbourne

Sexy bikini queen Hildah Lindah turned a year older today. And to mark the special day, Hildah, the self-made entrepreneur who currently deals in swimsuits, decided to go for a new photo-shoot. Hildah looked stunning as she rocked denims, patterns and prints in different sexy poses in her birthday photo-shoot.

Happy Birthday Hildah!

Check out Hildah Lindah’s birthday photo-shoot pictures below.

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Express FC fan hospitalized after being stoned by Vipers’ fans in Buikwe

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By Robert Kayindi James

Hakim Mage, an Express Football Club fan is bedridden at Mulago Hospital after he was stoned by Vipers’ fans on Tuesday this week at Buikwe Stadium. The incident happened during Vipers’ 1-0 victory over the Red Eagles in the Azam Uganda Premier League (AUPL).

“One of our fans Hakim Magembe was hit with a stone on the head by Vipers fans in Buikwe who also vandalised the vehicle (Mark II) of former FUFA lawyer Mr. Alex Luganda on Tuesday,” reads part of a statement released by the club on their official Facebook page.

Express FC fan Hakim Magembe has been hospitalized.

Express FC fan Hakim Magembe has been hospitalized.

The club is now calling upon sweet Ugandans from across the football fraternity and nation at large to help save a life through contributions.

“He is now admitted at Mulago Hospital and needs our help. I kindly request you to first save his dear life and ask other question later when he is fine. If you have any help please kindly send to 0753 006 112 (Ssemanda Bashir) a relative to Hakim,” further reads the statement.

As of now, the Federation of Uganda Football Association (FUFA) and the Uganda Premier League (UPL) Secretariat are yet to speak about the unfortunate matter.

A similar incident happened when Vipers SC hosted SC Villa at the same grounds in a game that ended in a 2-2 draw.

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P-Square’s Peter Okoye speaks out on Tiwa Savage’s cheating scandal

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Peter Okoye

Peter Okoye was reported to be one of the people who saved estranged hubby of Tiwa Savage, Tee Billz from jumping off the Lekki-Ikoyi link bridge a couple of days ago.

And now, Peter in his first interview since the drama shares his thoughts and explains why the issue should not be taken lightly.

When asked about the Tiwa Savage and Tee Billz marriage scandal, he had this to say;

I don’t want to make comments about this. Its very sensitive guys. I would never, sorry guys, I have made up my mind not to say anything about this.

We are talking about life and death here, so its very sensitive and I have promised myself not to talk about it.

I would do anything to love and support them.

Source: Pusle.ng

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Tiwa Savage in new rivalry with top Nigerian singer amid marriage troubles

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Tiwa Savage

On Thursday, Seyi Shay reacted to Tiwa Savage’s snub during a recent interview. In the Urban Superstar Top 10 interview by Urban96FM the Mavin singer snubbed Seyi Shay when asked about her. Instead of talking about Seyi Shay, Tiwa Savage praised Davido for his new Pepsi endorsement.

When asked about Seyi Shay being a Pepsi ambassador with her, Tiwa Savage said “You are so…ugh…having an interview with this girl is crazy. See I knew you were going to drop this in anyway, everybody has heard! What? Am I happy for Davido? Of course. I love him. He’s absolutely fantastic.

Seyi Shay caught the shade and reacted to it. She shared a screenshot of Tiwa Savage’s statement on her Instagram and captioned it “Yikes.” She also added a heartbroken emoticon to the caption. Responding to a fan in her comment section Seyi Shay admitted that Tiwa Savage’s response hurt her.

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Source: Pulse.ng

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Anne Kansiime lands gig in Kenya

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Anne Kansiime

Comedian Anne Kansiime has landed a comedy gig in Kenya. We have learnt that the Ugandan Queen of Comedy will perform in Nairobi later this month.

According to media reports in Kenya, Kansiime will be one of the guests at The Funny Truth comedy show. She was invited by one of Kenya’s top comedians, Chipukeezy, who is the organizer of the show.  The comedy show will be hosted at Weston Hotel, Nairobi on 28th May.

Meanwhile, Anne Kansiime has been a sensation in Kenya since her comedy show “Don’t Mess With Kansiime”  debuted on Kenya’s Citizen TV in 2014.

Staff Writer

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Koffi Olomide explains why he did not attend Papa Wemba’s funeral

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Papa Wemba

Congolese music grandmaster Papa Wemba was laid to rest at his Molokai home on Wednesday 11 days after his death.

The singer, born Jules Shungu Wembadio Pene Kikumba collapsed at the Femua Festival in Ivory Coast aged 65 years old.

Five days after his death the Abidjan and Congolese Government assisted with the transportation of his body to Ngaliema Morgue (à la morgue de la clinique Ngaliema) in Kinshasa where a post mortem was conducted to establish the cause of his death. The results will be restricted to family members only.

On Monday morning his body lay at Kamanyola national stadium – (or Stade des Martyrs located in Lingwala, Kinshasa for two days for public viewing and mourning.

During all this one thing was evident. Congolese music maestro Koffi Olomide was missing in action. He was busy staging various show outside DRC.

Many have questioned Koffi’s act – with others insinuating that his actions have not gone down well with most of Papa Wemba’s fans.

To make matters worse, there have been rumors that Papa Wemba could have been poisoned with a microphone.

“People will always find something to say whenever a prominent person dies. Truth is, Papa Wemba was not in good health at the time of his concert. He defied doctors orders to take rest after recuperating from a coma- since he had been paid for the show,” says his close confidant from DRC.

While admitting that DRC has encountered a great loss following the death of Papa Wemba – Koffi explains that his conscious is clear and that he has never had any ill motives towards his mentor and father papa Wemba- let alone any Congolese musician.

On the perceived rift between him and Papa Wemba Koffi admits they have not been in good terms owing to his departure from Viva La Musica to form his own Quartier Latin in 1986.

“Although our relationship was not as close as we used to be when I first joined his Viva La Musica band I still viewed him as a mentor and a ‘father’ musically speaking,” says Koffi

As for why he chose to abscond Wemba’s burial even though he was part of the funeral committee – Koffi says it was the deceased wish that he does so.

“Papa Wemba always made it clear that incase of his death I should not attend his burial and vice versa,” he says, adding that despite this he would have wished to be present at the burial.

As he lay in state, his coffin was draped in Congolese national colors with an enormous red hat, modeled on the hat he was wearing at the time of death

Thousands of mourners were in attendance, among them President Joseph Kabila.

The president not only paid a tribute to the singer at the memorial held at the parliamentary building, but also awarded him with one the DR Congo’s highest honours for the “loyal and eminent services given to the nation”.

Unlike prominent deceased Congolese musicians who have been buried at Gombe cemetery situated within La Gombe municipality in the Lukunga district, Kinshasa, Wemba’s wish was to be buried at his Molokai home. He becomes the first prominent Congolese musician to break away from the hallowed tradition.

Source: SDE.co.ke

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Kanye West’s body guard hits back after being fired for talking to Kim Kardashian

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The bodyguard fired after Kanye West reportedly flew into a jealous rage after he ‘chatted up’ his wife Kim Kardashian has hit back at the rapper.

Former Chippendale dancer Steve Stanulis, in an exclusive interview with Daily Mail Online, denied he had made advances toward the TV star and declared: ‘Kanye needs to chill the f*** out.’

Stanulis, 42, a former Staten Island police officer and father of three, said he was sacked minutes after Kanye saw him approaching his wife at the door of their Presidential suite on the 36th floor of New York’s Waldorf Astoria Hotel on Monday.

The bodyguard, who has also minded for Oscar winner Leonardo DiCaprio and Spider-Man actor Tobey Maguire, said Kanye was ‘the most self-absorbed person’ he had ever met.

Stanulis’s departure from working alongside the rapper also served to provide an insight into the tensions that are an everyday part of the star’s life.

He said Kanye had an air of self importance when dealing with people who worked for him and could hardly be bothered to exchange more than a few words with his security detail.

The super-rich rapper stands accused of failing to offer his bodyguards even a glass of water when he dines out in top restaurants while being watched over.

The burly bodyguard admitted, however, that Monday’s sacking followed an earlier incident in February when he was warned off from speaking to celebratory mother-of-two Kardashian.

But Stanulis, who is 5ft 11in and weighs 205lb, denied he had hit on her and only learned of the reason for his dismissal from members of Kanye’s entourage.

Source: DailyMail.co.uk

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5 Foods That Can Boost Your Sex Drive

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Looking for a healthy boost in the bedroom? You and your partner can both benefit from the effects of an increased libido. To make that happen, try thinking about what’s on the menu for date night, or maybe prepare a libido-enhancing snack as you and your significant other are settling in for the evening. If you choose the right foods, you’ll be well on your way to a long night of passion. Both men and women can see results from eating these yummy foods, so if you’re looking to spice things up, start stocking your cupboards. Here are some foods you likely already love that can also help boost sexual performance and desire.

1. Chocolate

Who doesn’t want another good reason to eat chocolate? A 2004 study found women who regularly ate chocolate wanted and enjoyed sex more than women who ate little to no chocolate. This could be because chocolate lowers stress levels by increasing serotonin and dopamine. Some say the reason is cocoa increases blood flow and relaxes the blood vessels. Chocolate also contains theobromine, an alkaloid similar to caffeine, and phenylethylamine, a chemical believed to create a feeling of “being in love.” Try sharing a bar of chocolate or some hot cocoa with your partner to keep both of you in the mood.

 2. Avocado

The Aztec word for avocado is “ahuacate,” which means “testicle.” It was named for its shape as well as its reputation as an aphrodisiac. Avocados are rich in heart-healthy fats, vitamin B6, and folic acid, all of which help increase energy. The vitamin B6 in avocados can increase male hormone production and the potassium content helps regulate a woman’s thyroid gland, making the avocado a great libido-booster for both men and women. Whip up some creamy guacamole or simply share a few slices of salted avocado for a sexy pre-bedroom treat.

3. Watermelon

For a sweet and juicy libido booster, grab a fresh slice of lycopene-rich watermelon. In 2008, researchers at the Texas A&M Fruit and Vegetable Improvement Center found that watermelon’s ingredients have a Viagra-like effect on the body’s blood vessels and could even aid in increasing libido. Watermelon contains a phytonutrient called citrulline, which is converted into arginine, an amino acid that boosts nitric oxide levels in the body, relaxing the blood vessels in the same way an erectile dysfunction medication does. Drench your watermelon slices in lime juice before digging in, or consider preparing a savory watermelon recipe for dinner.

4. Almonds

Just the scent of almonds is thought to be an aphrodisiac for women, according to some folklore. Almonds are rich in zinc, an essential for testosterone production and a healthy sex drive for either gender. The essential fatty acids in almonds are vital for a man’s hormone production. The nuts also contain L-arginine, a substance that is found in some medicated creams and gels that are applied to the genitals to increase arousal. It’s not clear how many almonds you would need to consume to get the same effect, but it can’t hurt to keep the nutritious nuts as part of your regular diet.

5. Black Raspberries

Sweet black raspberries or their seeds alone can help both men and women stay in the mood for an extended period of time. “This phytochemical-rich food enhances both libido and sexual endurance,” the authors of 7 Keys to Lifelong Sexual Vitality told Fitness Magazine. They recommend eating 10 berries or a tablespoon of their seeds a couple of hours before getting intimate. If you’re lucky enough to have some wild black raspberries growing in your backyard, go for an evening walk outside with your special someone, and do a little berry picking while you’re at it.

Source: Cheatsheet.com

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10 Signs You Are Acting Single While in a Committed Relationship

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couple 8In order to make a relationship work, I believe there are certain behaviors married folks just shouldn’t do. Here are 10 signs that you may be acting single while in a committed relationship:

Sign 1: Are you flirting with someone other than your spouse?

For most singles, flirting comes with the territory, which is fine when dating. However, flirting with someone other than your spouse could destroy your marriage (even if you think it’s innocent). I have learned flirting is never harmless, especially when married. I’ve watched couples struggle to recover after the initial flirting led to infidelity in their marriages. All those flirtatious behaviors, like batting those eyes or exchanging sexy glances should be saved for your spouse’s benefit only.

Sign 2: Are you seeking attention from someone other than your spouse?

Who doesn’t enjoy compliments or attention from someone who recognizes our assets? Hungering for attention from someone other than your spouse is sending out a message about your marriage. If you’re craving that attention, then share it with your spouse first and request more of what you need.

Sign 3: Are you sharing too many secret details about your marriage?

When I was single, I often shared my dating adventures with friends. I disclosed when a guy would call, who I liked and whether or not he was fun or boring. Since I’ve been married I am more selective about the details of my marriage. My marriage works best when I remember that my partnership is between me and my husband.

Sign 4: Are you choosing not to wear your wedding ring?

Being intentionally selective when it comes to wearing or not wearing your wedding ring/band is another sign, in my opinion. If you’re removing it when you’re going out in the hopes to appear single, you may be playing with fire. I take great pride in my marriage, and one of the ways I demonstrate that pride is by rocking my ring every day.

Sign 5: Are you playing hard to get with your spouse?

Making your spouse chase you is another one of those games singles can play, but us married folks shouldn’t. Having to prove themselves repeatedly or having to beg for intimacy is going to get really old really quickly.

Sign 6: Are you withholding information from your spouse?

I’ve discovered that vulnerability is another area where it’s cool for singles to keep some things to themselves while dating, but not so much for married folks. My marriage wouldn’t work if I don’t let my husband in and trust him with my baggage.

Sign 7: Are you living like you’re single?

Coming and going as I pleased worked for my single life, but not so much for my married life. Of course there is freedom in my marriage, but my husband and I still check in with one another. Out of respect, we share our whereabouts. I wouldn’t want him to worry or wonder where I am. It just makes sense.

Sign 8: Are you talking like you’re single?

Going on and on about how fine someone else is, how good their bodies look and what you’d like to physically do to them could be hurtful to your spouse. For me, demonstrating respect is key in a marriage. I don’t ever want to do or say anything that would cause my husband to feel uncomfortable.

Sign 9: Are you putting yourself in tempting situations?

My single girlfriends sometimes hang out in places where they know there will be single men. It’s intentional. Married folks should be mindful of situations and environments they place themselves in that could be harmful to their marriage as well.

Sign 10: Are you acting single on social media?

I’ve unfortunately witnessed the destruction social media has caused to marriages in my circle. From reconnecting with old flames, to posting inappropriate pictures, to criticizing and shaming a spouse publicly, each have the potential to destroy a marriage. Those of us who are married have to be mindful of the message our behavior may send to our spouse and act accordingly.

Source: Informationng.com

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