For the record, not every fling you experience during your summer vacation can be considered as a summer romance. At least, this is what women think. A girl can get a new short-term boyfriend during every vacation without experiencing a real summer romance. This is because a summer romance is a special scenario with a special man. Actually, a man can be virtually of any kind but he should give this relationship a special meaning. In what way? Let’s gain insight into it in terms of three aspects.
1. Meeting
The key word when it comes to summer romances is rapidity. The durability of a summer romance is limited to the number of days of your vacation. That is why forget such words as “tomorrow”, “later”, or “when I get tanned” or “when this bruise goes away”. Save them for your everyday life. When on holiday, you should act quickly and decisively. Instead of exchanging glances at a café for two days in a row hoping to bump into her at the beach next day, just come up to her and strike up a conversation. Don’t try to reinvent the wheel devising a brand-new pick-up line. Just use time-tested classic methods. With a smile on your face and a gentlemanly approach offer to buy her a drink saying something trivial but catchy.
Don’t feel uneasy because this is not how you normally act meeting girls. Even if she is in the company of her friends, it shouldn’t scare you away.
If you are concerned about the fact that you might be from different backgrounds, you shouldn’t be. First of all, you’re not bound to tell the truth. In the context of summer romances, you’re allowed to come up with a fake profession. Secondly, contrast is welcomed. The main difference between a summer romance and a regular affair is that you can let yourself do the things you don’t do in normal life. Some girls deliberately choose guys not from their “caste” for an exotic experience. And thirdly, the less you seem to match each other, the better. It means you will not cherish vain illusions about the possibility of turning your short romance into a serious relationship. Which in its turn means you’ll live in the here and now.
2. Entertainment
The sense or even the sacral purpose of a summer romance is to have fun and get new impressions. Considering the transience of your vacation, your pastime together should be eventful and vivid. Ideally, the “intensity” of each of your dates should be equal to one week of relations in everyday life. It would be great if a girl feels like you’ve known each other for centuries after the first day of being acquainted with you. In other words, the more actively you are involved in her pastimes, the faster and smoother you’ll get closer.
Regardless of the available entertainment in your area, you should be able to entertain your summer girlfriend using your own charm, talents, and sense of humor.
Remember that your aspiration to pick up multiple girls is incompatible with the desire to have an ideal summer romance. No matter how skillful you are, you’ll hardly manage to have several quality affairs. So, focus on one lady.
3. Sex
It would be wrong to claim that every summer romance is about sex. The truth is that each woman has her own expectations from her summer love. Some of them just want to experience new emotions and make men court and woo them. Yet, as a rule, sex is an essential part of summer romances.
In order to pave your way to her bed, you should understand her needs. If she came here for tenderness and romance, she’ll initiate night walks by the beach and sweet talks. If she is here in searches of passion, she’ll flirt first and say provocative things. If she is a thrill-seeker, she’ll hint at sex the night you met. Just be attentive and you’ll know which strategy to choose for your affair.
As to the technical aspect of sex, try something new. Realize your girl’s or your own fantasy to remember this summer romance forever.
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